أدعية Prayers

I found that I have a good number of so wonderful prayers
So isA (أن شاء الله ) day by day I will send one as a comment to this post
If u have any , it would be great to post it

My Dream Team "SMSM-soft "

As No one this moment no one commented my previous posts :(

I thought of commenting my self then i waited for a second and said:" ohhhh noo, people gonna say she turned mad "

So how about talking my lovely friendly dream team SMSM's

Who are SMSM's ??

Sally Mona Samar Maha and Heba


Our story

Sally (WeZzA)

She was from the first people i knew when i entered the college and she is in my section just know that about her now and i will continue later

Mona (mOnI ) and Maha (mYa)

i knew them together we were working together with Mr Ayman i a team called Top 14 -forget about that team now - Accidentally me, moni and mya choose the same task to do but the problem "we have to make meetings " meeting oh no that was the worst thing, as my mother said " Don't go to strangers home " .so, what am i gonna do?? , meetings only at my home cause we will not go Helwan for sure

Mona and Maha didn't reject and didn't say a word but i felt it " عندها meeting أية الغلسة دية كل "and i know u also will say so.

What happened next is that me mona and maha became a team and started switching meetings between mYa's home and mine and we made our First project "4 kids " which was funny interesting and the best of them all wanna have copy "pay for it :P" to be true there was a third member with us Aliaa .

Moni , Mya , Wezza

Second year second term at first i wasn't working with them don't remember why at that time they were friends to Lamia (Loomi) and made a team

But did i left them so long time , never think so it was only 2 weeks after the start of this team when i joined them

And now Came SMSM's

Last year lamia left us and entered IS dept here we thought of naming our team and making a logo for our self

Sure it wasn't becouse Loomi left s don't think so bad it was a phone call between me and mYa about Microsoft , google and how this started in small groups and here we said what about Us SMSM-soft good name loga was my job and the thing i am thinking of and it came thank allah

Heba (Timo)

You thought i am going to forget her no never ever , She joined us this year and we are so happy with her being with us .

And We all agreed on one Mission Statement

"Our mission is to enhance our career in software programming and development, having soft and technical skills experience, working with creative and innovating teams and being up-to date in all software techniques and technologies besides gaining experience in marketing and entrepreneurship, and first of all making useful projects to help in the progress and improvement of our Egyptian community. "

smsm-soft

Dream Team

T E A M =

T ogether

E veryone

A chieves

M ore

What is a Team?

A team is a group of people working together toward specific objectives within a defined operational field , and they hold themselves mutually accountable for the results

Advantages of Teams

Greater knowledge & experience base

Different perspectives

Willingness to take more risk

Synergy – the whole is greater than the sum of its parts

Disadvantages of Teams

Potential for conflict

May interfere with individual objectives

Takes more people ’ s time

Slows decision making

Types of Teams

1- There may be more than one person doing the exact same work, to More than one person doing the exact same work, to achieve a team objective or target. achieve a team objective or target.

2- Or a series of people, where one person's ou come depends on all previose people's work

3- Ather way A group of people working together and shifting roles so that the each person in the team gets acquainted by everyone else role.

4- A different way that Several teams competing together to achieve the same objective or target.

Team Leader

The team leader is the person who manages the team: calling and, if necessary, facilitating meetings, handling assigning administrative details, orchestrating all team activities, and overseeing preparations for reports and presentations.

Characteristics of a Good Team Leader

-Works for consensus on decisions

- Shares openly and authentically with others regarding personal feelings, opinions, thoughts, and perceptions about problems and conditions

-Involves others in the decision-making process

- Trusts, supports, and has genuine concern for other team members.

-"Owns" problems rather than blaming them on others

- When listening, attempts to hear and interpret communication from other's points of view

- Influences others by involving them in the issue(s)

Team members

Team members are the rest of the people involved in the project. Team members are appointed

by the Team leader or the Stakeholders. The nature of the project dictates who they are.

Characteristics of a Good Team Member

-Encourages the development of other team members

- Respects and is tolerant of individual differences

- Acknowledges and works through conflict openly

-Considers and uses new ideas and suggestions from others

- Encourages feedback on own behavior

- Understands and is committed to team objectives.

- Does not engage in win/lose activities with other team members

-Has skills in understanding what's going on in the group

Most important notes to have a PERFECT team "Dream Team "

All members are leaders.

Celebrate even a small success.

Care about the feeling of athers is required.

Voting procedure is an emergency exit.

Finding excuses is the drug of choice.

Leaders should be flexible.

Communicate and communicate all togther .

Leaders have to always support and motivate others.

Do not be panic.

Hint for Leaders :If you would like to master it ..teach it and don't just give orders to ather. show them how to make it

Do not forget priorities.

Have a shared vision.

Planning…… planning…… planning.

Equal load distribution.

Plan is always the driver.

Evaluate every period and re-correct.

Set rules for managing conflicts.

Men Are Hard To Please

Men Are Hard To Please
The problems with GUYS:

If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;

If u Don't, he says u are PROUD.

If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him;
If u Don't, he says u are from KAMPUNG.

If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN;

If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS.

If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE;

If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT.

If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u;

If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?)

If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROUBLESOME;

If u don't, he says that u don't TRUST him.

If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;

If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.

If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED0;

If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.

If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl;

If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMENT.

If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK;

If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.

If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;

If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!!& sooo hard to please!!!!!

If they read this ,they will swear that it's not true.

but if they didn't, they say..............

3 magical powerful words

Description:
The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship. These are just three little BUT VERY POWERFUL words !!!

I'll Be There:
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there." Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we're truly present for other people, important things happen to them & us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.

I Miss You
Perhaps more marriages could be saved & strengthened if couples simply & sincerely say to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired & loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."

I Respect You / I Trust You
Respect and trust is another way of showing love. Its conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds & become close friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships

Maybe You're Right
This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting maybe "I'm wrong". Let's face it. When you have a heated argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person's point of view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational manner.

Please Forgive Me
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

I Thank You
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

Count On Me
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count on me."

Let Me Help
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.

I Understand You
People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing relationship. This applies to any relationship.

Go For It
We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how weird they seem to you. Everyone has dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them to "go for it."

I Love You
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted.Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words "I love you."

And Here We Go

And finally my blog is here. My name is Samar AbdElMonsef. I am an egyptian computer science student. It will be great to share my thoughts with you.